The
Importance of Listening - When, and why
My teacher
actually gave this topic because she was apparently triggered with a few of us
in class who was talking when there were people who were presenting their ULBS
presentation. I was honestly wondering what is the point of scolding us because
we have nothing to do and its not like we were the panel or the ones
presenting. But oh well, I still have to write this blog.
Listening
should not be taken for granted. Before the invention of writing, people conveyed
virtually all knowledge through some combination of showing and telling. Elders
recited tribal histories to attentive audiences. Listeners received religious
teachings enthusiastically. Myths, legends, folktales, and stories for
entertainment survived only because audiences were eager to listen. Nowadays,
however, you can gain information and entertainment through reading and
electronic recordings rather than through real-time listening. If you become
distracted and let your attention wander, you can go back and replay a
recording. Despite that fact, you can still gain at least four compelling
benefits by becoming more active and competent at real-time listening.
When you
focus on the material presented in a classroom, you will be able to identify
not only the words used in a lecture but their emphasis and their more complex
meanings. You will take better notes, and you will more accurately remember the
instructor’s claims, information, and conclusions. Many times, instructors give
verbal cues about what information is important, specific expectations about
assignments, and even what material is likely to be on an exam, so careful
listening can be beneficial.
Besides
that, when you give your best attention to people expressing thoughts and
experiences that are important to them, those individuals are likely to see you
as someone who cares about their well-being. This fact is especially true when
you give your attention only and refrain from interjecting opinions, judgments,
and advice.
When you
listen well to others, you reveal yourself as being curious and interested in
people and events. In addition, your ability to understand the meanings of what
you hear will make you a more knowledgeable and thoughtful person.
When you
listen well to others, you start to pick up more on the stylistic components
related to how people form arguments and present information. As a result, you
have the ability to analyze what you think works and doesn’t work in others’
speeches, which can help you transform your speeches in the process. For
example, really paying attention to how others cite sources orally during their
speeches may give you ideas about how to more effectively cite sources in your
presentation.